Why “shamefastness” is a great word
SHAMEFASTNESS — [Noun] The state of being modest, bashful, or restrained by an innate, internal sense of shame and propriety. From Middle English schamefastnesse, from Old English sċeamfæstness ("modesty"), equivalent to shamefast (from Old English sċeamfæst, from sċeamu ("shame") + -fæst ("fast, fixed")) + -ness (noun-forming suffix). Unlike shamelessness, which denotes a brazen lack of decency, or immodesty, which refers to overt boldness, shamefastness implies a positive, inherent reserve. It is the averted gaze that grants privacy, the hand that instinctively draws a curtain, and the deliberate silence held where a coarse joke might easily land—a dignified fortress of the self, now a quiet edifice in a clamorous world.