graciosity means graciousness, usually in a bad sense, as implying duplicity. Lexicurio rates it Sui generis — a strength score of 88 out of 100.
Why “graciosity” is a great word
GRACIOSITY — [Noun] A show of graciousness perceived as insincere or strategically performed. From Middle English graciousete, partly from Middle French gracieuseté ("graciousness"), and partly modelled on Latin grātiōsitās ("favor, kindness"), from grātiōsus ("enjoying favor, agreeable"). Unlike "graciousness," which implies sincere warmth, or "obsequiousness," which denotes servile flattery, graciosity is the artful veneer of benevolence applied as a calculated feint. It is the politician's handshake that lasts a beat too long, the extravagant compliment that rings hollow, and the velvet-gloved refusal that wounds more deeply than a bare fist—a social lubricant that leaves a faint, metallic scent of distrust.
noun
- graciousness, usually in a bad sense, as implying duplicity