erastes · noun — an adult man who loved or was in a pedagogic relationship with an adolescent boy. It carries an Arena rating of 1362, earned across 33 head-to-head judged battles.
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Among words judged in Lexicurio's Arena, erastes ranks #1,516 of 17,146 for Most Storied Words, #4,064 of 17,171 for Scariest Words, #4,087 of 17,163 for Most Sublime Words, #4,247 of 17,176 for Most Incisive Words.
erastes is pronounced /ɛˈɹæsteɪs/.
Why “erastes” is a great word
ERASTES — [Noun] In ancient Greece, the adult man who was the older, active partner and mentor in a formalized pedagogical and romantic relationship with an adolescent boy (the eromenos). Learned borrowing from Ancient Greek ἐραστής (erastḗs, "lover"), from ἐράω (eráō, "to love"). Unlike *eromenos* (the younger, beloved object) or *pederast* (a modern, pejorative clinical term), *erastes* denotes a specific, socially regulated role. It is the warrior offering a hare in the gymnasium, the low voice explicating poetry in the symposium, the steadying hand on a dusty march—a figure where desire was a form of pedagogy, its complex virtue preserved in the amber of a vanished world.
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Etymology
Learned borrowing from Ancient Greek ἐραστής (erastḗs, “lover”).
noun
- An adult man who loved or was in a pedagogic relationship with an adolescent boy.e.g.“In regard to the boys (erōmenos) involved in ancient Greek pederasty, Dover (1978:52) asked: “What does the eromenos get out of submission to his erastēs?”” — 2002, Stephen O Murray, Pacific Homosexualities, iUniverse, page 80:
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