Why this word is great
ABNEGATION — [Noun] The act of renouncing or rejecting something, especially the denial of one's own interests or desires. From Middle English abnegacioun, borrowed from Latin abnegātiō, from abnegō ("refuse, deny"), from ab ("away, off") + negō ("deny, refuse, say no"). Unlike "renunciation," which often formalizes a public sacrifice, or "temperance," which counsels measured restraint, abnegation is the private, absolute "no" spoken in the soul's quiet. It is the monk's cold cell at dawn, the parent's untouched dessert portion, and the deliberate turning away from warmth to stand in the necessary cold—a hollowing out of the self to make room for a principle, proving how closely austerity borders on a kind of love.